Teachers - bah

I got a phone call from Jamies teacher and now a note that she wants to meet with for an IRPC for Jamie. This basically means I get to spend an hour or so having a group of people I don't know talk down to me. Why oh why do they always talk to me like I'm some idiot that can't understand what they are saying. They are including the guidance counselor AND on-site social worker so now it'll be 5 against one. Great. Had another fight with Jamie tonight - he's grounded for two weeks to try to earn back some trust around here. So tonight BT says to me "You know he's talking to Tonya at the front door right?" No as a matter of fact I didn't know and I yelled up to him to shut the door and I just ASSUMED that he listened to me. Silly me. Ten minutes later there is a positively arctic wind whistling down the stairs and I have to go up and tell him to shut the damn door. I'm putting off turning on the heat as long as I can to save some money this month and there he is turning the whole place into a refridgerator - actually I think the fridge was warmer. If the heat had have been on I might have been tempted to echo my father and ask him if he thought I was heating the whole neighbourhood. lol.