Jamie strikes again

So Jamie didn't bother to come home on Wednesday night. I had a migrane on Wednesday afternoon so when the kids came home from school BT told them to go to their rooms so I could rest. After a little nap that left me feeling so much better, I went upstairs and Jamie had taken off again. I haven't seen him since. Seems he took Tonya with him this time as her mother has been calling me every day first looking for Tonya, then telling me that Tonya has informed her that she is moving out with Jamie. I've got a call into the agency that is supposed to help me with Jamie and his problems. Hopefully they can help to get him somewhere else to live since my "rules" interfere with his life so much - maybe they can get him into a group home or some kind of assisted housing. Turns out that Tonya's mom has the same worker at this place so we'll see what they can for the two of them. Jamie has me so upset I just don't know what to do any more - it's not like I'm terribly strict and I don't even make them work much around the house. You'd think he was living in slavery the way he acts. I made him clean his room- HIS mess- and it was like pulling teeth. He had this large nasty spot on his carpet - I'm not sure what it was but I have my suspections - so I made HIM scrub it out of the carpet with a special carpet cleaner I got for pet messes. I had even made a doctors appt for him - I think he has a planters wart that needs to be removed - and I've had to cancel that now. BT says I should just let the little bastard freeze and not let him back this time. *sigh* I'm just so tired.